To live happily with others accept them with their imperfections

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Everyone wants to be happy in life but study shows who has better relationship with people around them are the most happiest people in the world.You have to deal with people whether you are at home ,at work place or any another place ,without dealing with others life not possible. 
To live happily with others you should keep in mind this no body is perfect, there is always some kind of imperfections in everybody,even some time that are not imperfections ,that's just your opinion about one and another.Even if any person is very close to you,there will be definitely something you don't like then it doesn't mean you have to do argue on that thing again and again,and make yourself disturbed.If person not understanding after your two,three times try then just and ignore that thing of that person and focus on any positive thing of that person to maintain the relation.When you live in a family even there is no any single person you like each and everything about them,so if you want to live happily with them accept them with their imperfections, there is no any other alternative otherwise you will get disturbed all the time when you would deal with them.To maintain relationship with others and live peacefully with them keep yourself busy and when you spend time with them,spend quality time with them,have a interesting conversation, try to make them happy, if they  say something about you which you don't like respond with smile ,increase your tolerance power. Divert the conversation to good one which you don't like ,if you are not able to divert just listen don't respond much automatically person will change the topic.when you sit with others appreciate their positive things ignore negative ,if they discuss any problem with you give them genuine suggestions. 
By following all these things you can make your relationship strong with any person and can enjoy their company. By keeping these things in your mind,when you spend time with them and when you deal with them  they would also start treating you like that the way you want.

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