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How to live happily with family members?

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Everything starts from home if you know how to be happy at home with your family members, you can live anywhere,with anyone happily.Here are some points you can apply and enjoy your family life. Each member must be financially independent  In a family,if the person is above 18 must be financially independent beacuse most of the quarrels in the family is due to this.If each person in the family financially independent then it's easy to manage all expenses,no body is burden on anyone even can help one and another. It's the first and foremost thing if you want enjoy family life. Talk less but politely  When you talk less and talking politely, there are very less chances of any type of arguments, fights,no difference in opinions problem. To maintain a relationship with family members never stop communication with them,everyday communicate with them but in limit or according to the person to person's nature. Help one and another in house chores When we live as a fami...

Be polite and talk less

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To have good relationship with others communication is must but it's more important the way you communicate with others.If you communicate with others to build a good relationship but your way of communication is not precise then your relationship will be superficial with the person not any deep relationship.  To have good relationship with anyone and live happily with others two important factors which works like a wonder. One is you must talk to others but less.Second,in that less talk, be polite.Actually when you talk less with others there are very less chances of any type of arguments, fights because your communication will be based on something useful or needed.But always keep in mind how much you talk to others ,be polite in your talk so others can realize this thing ,person interested in talking,talk less doesn't mean person don't want to talk.Actually if you are polite, people around you don't hesitate to share anything with you,they like to talk to...

Never forget the hands that raised you

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Parents play important role in everyone's life and this is the only relation which is above all other relations.If you see in other relations always there are some type of conditions but for parents no conditions are there you can freely talk to them beacuse you better know they will listen you by heart, if even when the get old and they are not able to do something for you but atleast they listen you by heart and give you blessings.This is one kind of circle made by nature when you are too small and you are not able to do anything by yourself, your parents do for you and same thing with parents also when they get old they are also not able to do many things by themselves so now it's your turn to take care of them well by reminding yourself each day these hands raised me and now it's my turn to help them and take care of them in any way.Remind yourself self on which position you are today their participation is more than any one,different type of sacrifices they ...

Children will follow your example not your advice

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Parents are always first teacher in anyone's life ,what parents teach their children in the beginning,many things become their habbits and nature.They follow that teachings of their parents whole life but question is this how parents should teach their children so they can live a happy life. Actually beginning years of the children are very important because in this age children are in growing state and observes more,after observing what you are doing in front of them they start coping you .It's the best and easy way to teach children what you want from them just do in front of them.Like in this technology's era everyone use mobile phones and even small children also very attracted towards this because parents use in front of them ,they observe and then they also want to use.If you forcefully want to stop them using mobile then they'll not,just stop using in front them. Every parents want their children must have discipline in their life,they learn f...

To live happily with others accept them with their imperfections

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Everyone wants to be happy in life but study shows who has better relationship with people around them are the most happiest people in the world.You have to deal with people whether you are at home ,at work place or any another place ,without dealing with others life not possible.  To live happily with others you should keep in mind this no body is perfect, there is always some kind of imperfections in everybody,even some time that are not imperfections ,that's just your opinion about one and another.Even if any person is very close to you,there will be definitely something you don't like then it doesn't mean you have to do argue on that thing again and again,and make yourself disturbed.If person not understanding after your two,three times try then just and ignore that thing of that person and focus on any positive thing of that person to maintain the relation.When you live in a family even there is no any single person you like each and everything about them,so...

If you want to solve anyone's problem first detach yourself emotionally

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It's very good gesture when you try to solve other's problems, when you help others and when you be kind to others.But while solving anyone's problem when you detach yourself from that person you can solve that person's problem effectively without hurt yourself emotionally.Actually when you detach yourself from person this doesn't mean you don't have any care and love for that person,it actually means by detaching yourself emotionally you can take care of them,you can solve their problems in right way beacuse in that situation your mind would be stress free and with undivided attention you can solve others problems easily. You can take the example of doctor and patient if doctor is emotionally attached to the patient then doctor would think why patient is in so much pain,why this thing happened to him etc. these type of things.With this divided attention it is impossible to treat the patient effectively, if doctor leave other all things and focus on j...