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Be polite and talk less

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To have good relationship with others communication is must but it's more important the way you communicate with others.If you communicate with others to build a good relationship but your way of communication is not precise then your relationship will be superficial with the person not any deep relationship.  To have good relationship with anyone and live happily with others two important factors which works like a wonder. One is you must talk to others but less.Second,in that less talk, be polite.Actually when you talk less with others there are very less chances of any type of arguments, fights because your communication will be based on something useful or needed.But always keep in mind how much you talk to others ,be polite in your talk so others can realize this thing ,person interested in talking,talk less doesn't mean person don't want to talk.Actually if you are polite, people around you don't hesitate to share anything with you,they like to talk to...

Move your body,make yourself fit and healthy

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Instead of trying different-2 things to keep yourself fit and healthy, adopt one of the simplest thing is move your body after waking up in the morning. For the movement of body you can choose whatever you like walk,exercise, housechores, dance etc. Actually our body is also like a machine if you don't use any machine on regular basis or for many days,after some time it starts showing faults and not work properly.Same thing with body if you not move your body in any way ,you will not feel to do any work and invite different type of health related problems.  To keep yourself fit and healthy make a habbit to waking up early in the morning and spend few minutes on your body.When you spend time on your body ,you not only feel good on body level but you will start noticing you feel also good on mind level. Our mind and body both are interconnected what you do on body level,you can take that benefit on mind level also and vice versa.  In the morning ,on consistent basis if y...

A calm person has the strongest mind

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Human mind is not less than miracle if you know how to take care of your mind as you take care of your body.As you feed your body time to time and do exercise or walk to keep it healthy and fit ,same what you do for your mind to keep it calm in every situation. With calm mind you can get the solution of anything because calm mind is not a lazy mind it's strong and active mind. On daily basis take care of your mind well to keep it healthy and strong.Here are some ways to have a strongest mind. Start your day by reading or listening something positive  Each morning listen or read something positive to set the tone for the day and feel whole day positive and active on mind level.When you read or listen something it actually changes you internally and you automatically start taking action to make your life better. Clean and well organized space Your environment matters a lot where you live or do work,if your space is clean and well organized you can feel the vibes of calmness.F...

Keep moving forward, pain is temporary

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No matter what you want to achieve in your life you have to bear some kind of pain. As much as your are bearing pain,your size of success dpends upon that ,it will be that much big.Even this is also true which success comes easy will not satisfy you,not give you long term happiness,great success never come easy you have to face failures ,different type of sacrifices only then you can taste the success.Never give up on your dreams because of pain,accept it's the part of journey, once you taste the success,you will forget about the pain and you realize how your pain is small in front of your success. Actually it's easy to say while bearing pain,keep moving forward towards your goals but lot of courage is needed to move forward. You must have a strong and positive mindset that no matter what's coming in my way,one day ,I will reach at my destination, nothing can stop me.This type of strong self talk must be there to move forward. When you feel like giving up,say these ...

Consistency is the key to achieve anything

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Setting goal is easy but achieving that goal is hard because most of the people start anything but don't do on consistent basis. Without consistency you can't see any result and you will give up.When you start something just start taking actions even small but take on consistent basis.Here are some points,how to be consistent towards your goals and achieve what you want to achieve. Self talk related to your goals There must be a self talk related to your goals,you must tell your mind why you started this,what's the purpose behind your goal.when you tell this to mind each day definitely your mind will help you to take action for that goal with consistency.  Start small when you start anything,to maintain a consistency do for small time and when you start showing interest in that then slowly2 increase time limit.It's more important to taking a small2 actions with consistency rather not taking . Read or listen successful stories On daily basis read or listen st...

Love and care is the best medicine in the world

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If you have loving and caring people in your life ,it's not less than blessing because love and care when you show to people each day it's not only make their day but yours also.When we talk about love and care this is not a one day task ,make it everyday task if you want long lasting relationships with people around you.No matter keep showing love and care each day forms may be changed but never stop because it's the basic building block of any kind of relationship.When you show love and care to the people even who are very tough, by continously showing you can improve your relationship with that type of people.If you have to live with other people you must learn the art love and care,only then you can live happily otherwise even it's very hard to live happily  with a single person.This is the basic nature of human being everyone feels good when anybody shows love and care towards them even other beings also.Especially when person is sick,then love and care is ...

Company matters a lot both offline and online

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In today's era if you want to know the company of person,consider both online and offline.Offline what type of people you are surrounded with on daily basis at home ,at work place or what type of friend circle you have that's your company and same as online also to whom you're listening, reading,watching that's your online company .Both matters even online more because most of the people spend more time online ,offline and online where and with whom you spend most of the time that type of person you become. This doesn't mean you have to totally ignore the bad people because this is not possible but you can maintain a mental distance with that kind of people and focus on what they have positive ignore negative.If we talk about online company where you spend most of the time,be carefull what you're watching, reading or listening online that all things are going to your subconscious mind and that type of person you become,because what type of company yo...

Problems are the sign of life

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Problems are in everybody's life dpends upon person to person different people have different type of problems.You should accept this thing , it's part of life just keep in mind if you are able to find the solution of problem then find otherwise change your mindset towards the problem and it will be better if you call it situation not a problem because when you call problem is a situation your half of the problem solved and your more focus will be on finding the solution not regretting about the thing. Actually without facing situation in life growth is not possible, at different stages of life different type of problems are there,instead of stressing yourself always be excited for the situation and try to solve otherwise wise change your mindset.In actual situations are the beauty of life otherwise there would not be any kind of thrill in your life because after finding the solution of any situation you can feel your growth,you become confident and experienced pers...

Be kind and you will always look beautiful

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Who doesn't like to look beautiful, everyone like but people mostly focus on outer beauty than inner beauty. This is okay you should maintain your outerlooks but focus on inner self also.That's a long lasting beauty and it's never faded away,you can make a strong relations with others if you have that inner qualities. One of the best thing that makes you beautiful  all the time is kindness. Create this quality in yourself and look beautiful in others eyes and build a good relationship with anyone. Kindness is one kind of accessory you can wear any time and anywhere to attract  people around you as a nice personality. If you are always kind to others people damn care about your outer look that how you look externally. Your outer beauty can attract only people around you in the beginning  but when you start living with people ,start dealing with people your  nature,your behavior, your inner qualities  matters most.If you have outer beauty and you don't...

Never put the key of your happiness in someone else's pocket

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Everyone's ultimate goal of life is happiness. People try different-2 things to live a happy and peaceful life but most of the time they choose wrong ideas to be happy which gives them happiness but for a short time.They try to find happiness in other people,material things or different kind of pleasures.  If you want to live a happy life,it's totally dpends you ,you're the only person can make yourself happy no one else.If you put the key of your happiness in someone others pocket then you can't be happy because it's not possible no body can go according to you completely it may be any very close relation ,there is always difference of opinions.Actually seeking happiness from others one kind of expectations that may be sometime fulfilled or sometime not.It means this is in there hand if they're fulfilling you're happy if not then you are not happy.For happiness in life just leave expectations, don'texpect anything from anyone even leave mino...